Aunty Lous House

Dating Sex and HIV disclosure

When Should You Disclose Your HIV Status to Someone You're Dating? Dating while living with HIV can be joyful, empowering, and deeply meaningful—but it also brings moments of vulnerability. One of the most common questions I hear is: “When is the right time to tell someone I’m dating that I have HIV?” The truth is, there’s no universal rule. Disclosure is personal. It’s not just about timing—it’s about trust, emotional safety, and self-respect. Whether you choose to share early or wait until a deeper connection forms, what matters most is that you feel ready. In this blog, I explore how to approach disclosure with clarity and confidence, how to respond to stigma, and why your story is a powerful tool for change. You are more than your status. You are worthy of love, joy, and respect. 👉 Read the full blog and download your free Empowerment Toolbox at www.auntyloushouse.com 🎧 Tune into Aunty Lou’s Hour podcast for real conversations with people living with HIV around the world 📲 Follow Aunty Lou’s House on Instagram, YouTube, TikTok, Facebook, and LinkedIn

Embracing Dyslexia Later in Life

In this heartfelt blog post, the author shares their late-in-life discovery of dyslexia and the personal journey from masking their struggles to fully embracing their neurodivergence. Now in their 50s, they reflect on the power of self-acceptance, speaking kindly to their younger self, and finding courage in starting something new — like learning a language. A touching reminder that feeling different doesn’t mean being alone. Read the full post and be inspired to embrace your own story — just as you are.

Hiding From HIV

Hiding from HIV: Breaking the Silence and Reclaiming Strength For ten years, Louise Vallace lived in silence, hiding her HIV status out of fear and shame. In her deeply personal journey, she reveals how stigma kept her isolated and how she ultimately found the courage to speak up. Through therapy, self-care, and radical self-love, she transformed her fear into empowerment. Today, she shares her story to challenge stigma and inspire others to embrace their truth. Read her full interview in POZ Planet Magazine – May 2025 Edition. Learn more about Louise’s work at Aunty Lou’s House, and follow her on Instagram, YouTube, TikTok, Facebook, and LinkedIn.

Saying Goodbye to Addiction and Shame

Louise Vallace's story is one of remarkable resilience and empowerment. As a divorced mother of three, her world shifted profoundly upon receiving an HIV diagnosis. Battling the stigma and shame associated with HIV, Louise faced immense personal challenges. Her journey towards self-acceptance included confronting reliance on smoking and alcohol, ultimately discovering healthier coping mechanisms through yoga and mindfulness. Now sober and cigarette-free, Louise is the Founder and CEO of *Aunty Lou’s House Limited*, a dynamic platform dedicated to supporting individuals living with HIV and breaking societal stigma. She hosts the podcast *Aunty Lou’s Hour*, connecting with inspiring individuals worldwide to share their HIV experiences and foster public dialogue. Beyond her advocacy, Louise is a certified yoga teacher, an intersection coach, a neurodivergent individual, and a proud follower of a plant-based lifestyle. Her work exemplifies courage, determination, and the belief that embracing one’s true self leads to meaningful change and a life of fulfilment. To learn more, visit *Aunty Lou’s House Limited* and explore her empowering resources. Follow her journey on Instagram, YouTube, TikTok, Facebook, and LinkedIn.

Finding Love with HIV: How Yoga and Self Discovery Transformed My Life

Dating as a single mum of three while living with HIV felt nearly impossible. Fear of rejection kept me guarded, and the dating pool seemed limited. Instead of waiting for love, I focused on self-discovery—embracing yoga, art, and new experiences. Then, when I least expected it, I met Adrian. Our connection was instant, built on shared values, humor, and a deep understanding of each other. But love wasn’t without its challenges—an age gap, racial differences, and my HIV status. Through mindfulness and trust, we built something real. This is my journey of love, resilience, and self-acceptance